There are people who like to surround themselves with a lot of friends, and there are people who like to have just a couple of good ones.
There is no right or wrong way to be in life.
Whether or not you like to have a lot of friends and be a social butterfly is a matter of personal preference.
Some people like that type of lifestyle, while others cringe at the thought.
If you are someone who wants to have that type of lifestyle you can have it. Even if you don’t have a lot of friends right now and you are not a social butterfly you can change it all. If you desire to have a lot of friends and be a social butterfly the power is within your mind to do so.
No matter how social you are right now or how many friends you currently have; you absolutely can manifest friends and become a social butterfly. It’s just a matter of manifesting it into your life.
Manifesting Friends and Relationships
Manifesting something is the process of using your mind to bring about what you want in your life. Through manifestation, you can create the life you want to live and can bring anything about. In fact, everything that we have on the planet today was first in someone’s mind, and then they manifested it.
The act of manifesting something into your life, whether it is friends and a great social life or its money and a fabulous job, is a part of the Laws of Attraction. The Laws of Attraction is essentially the act of the Universe bringing you exactly what it is that you want in life.
Those who know how to use the Laws of Attraction correctly can manifest anything they want. You can even use it to manifest friends and become a social butterfly!
Learn to Love Yourself, first
Have you ever noticed that people are attracted to those who tend to love themselves? It’s true! People who love themselves have a lot of confidence and gratitude. Their good energy vibe helps to attract people into their life, and keeps people there longer.
There is a good chance that up until this point you haven’t been a great friend to yourself. If you are like most people you have been finding all of your faults, cutting yourself down, saying mean things to yourself, and picking out every little shortcoming. Be honest, is that what you have been doing?
If so, that’s likely the reason you don’t have friends and are not a social butterfly yet. You have to correct this problem in order to manifest friends and be a social butterfly.
In order to do this you have to be a better friend to yourself. How can you be a good friend to others when you have been such a poor one to yourself? Your first goal in manifesting friends and becoming a social butterfly is to become a good friend… to yourself!
To be a good friend to yourself you need to:
- Replace negative self-talk with positive affirmations.
- Be grateful for the friends you currently have and express gratitude.
- Spend more time focusing on your positives and the things you do right.
- Learn to be gentle with yourself, forgive yourself, and believe in yourself.
- Be someone who you would want to spend time around.
When you take those steps you will become a confident person who is ready to manifest friends and be a social butterfly.
How to Manifest Friends and a Better Social Life
Being able to manifest friends and become a social butterfly is a powerful thing, and it’s something that anyone can do with the right mindset. The mind is the most important thing when it comes to manifesting anything. It’s powerful and you have to be willing to do the work. Things just don’t happen without first happening in your mind.
Here are the steps to manifesting friends and becoming a social butterfly:
1.Determine What You Want and Why
You know you want friends and to be more social. But what does that look and feel like for you? Give some serious thought to this question. You have to have a clear vision about what it is that you want so that the Universe can give you exactly that.
If you don’t know what it is that you want then you will not be successful in getting it. You need first to determine what it looks like for you to have friends and be a social butterfly. Does this mean you will be popular, be invited to parties, have friends over every weekend, etc.? Do you want two new friends or a dozen new friends? Get to the bottom of what it looks like.
You also need to determine why you want this. By knowing this information you will be in a better position to attract what it is you are longing for. Do you want to manifest this because you are lonely, feel left out, want to share yourself with others, want new experiences, etc.? Consider why you want this.
The clearer about what you want that you can be the more successful you will be in being able to manifest it. Our thoughts become reality, which means your vision has to be clear. If you are unsure about what you want or you waffle back and forth, then the Universe cannot manifest it for you.
2.Make Your Manifestation Intentions Known
Once you have a clear vision of what is that you want to manifest you are ready to make it known. By making your manifestation intentions known you are magnifying the energy involved and sending powerful messages to the Universe.
You can do this in one of several ways, including by:
- Write down what it is that you want to manifest. You can simply write it out, or you can do a more intense writing manifestation tactic called the 55×5 method. With that method, you write it out 55 times, for five days in a row.
- Telling someone about what it is that you want to manifest. Be clear just as if you were writing the information out. This will also ensure that the Universe receives the information about what you are manifesting.
- Creating a manifestation vision board. You can do this by getting a bulletin board and placing images, pictures, cutouts, words, etc., on it that represent exactly what you want to manifest. Once you finish your vision board hangs it in an area where you will see it daily.
- Begin using affirmations on a daily basis. Every day say things that announce to the Universe what your manifestation goals are. This may look like saying “Today, I will make a new friend and be invited to a weekend event.”
3.Focus on Your Attitude
Your attitude is really important when it comes to manifesting friends and being a social butterfly. Your attitude includes such things as your beliefs about manifestation, whether you are positive or negative, and your overall energy vibe.
The Universe will bring about what it is that you want, but your attitude has to be in the right place. You have to believe that it will happen and you have to have a good attitude. If you don’t believe in manifesting something and you have a negative attitude you will block the manifestation from taking place.
Put a focus on your attitude and keep it in check. Whenever you have negative thoughts or doubts it is important to replace them with something good. Replace them by saying your affirmations or reminding yourself of what you are doing. If you go too long not having the right state of mind then your manifestation efforts will not work and you will need to start the process over with an improved mindset.
4.Start Saying “Yes”
It’s not enough to do the above steps and then just go sit in your home and wait. You have to take steps to make things happen. Start moving in the direction that you want your life to take. One of the most important ways you can do this is by beginning to say yes to things.Far too often, we get into a habit of telling people no when we get invited to something. We do this out of fear of something going wrong or that we won’t like what we have been invited to. Now is the time to change that.Get into the habit of saying yes, so that you are exposed to new things. By doing that you are going to make new friends, strengthen the friendship bonds that you have, and you are going to become a social butterfly.
There is a great movie about the power in saying yes, called “Yes Man.” The movie stars Jim Carrey as a character who starts saying yes to everything he’s offered or invited to. Skeptical at first, it becomes life-changing for him and takes his life in a direction he never would have expected. The same type of thing can happen with you when you open yourself up to what the Universe puts before you.
Opening up to the idea of saying yes to things doesn’t mean that you should get yourself into dangerous situations. If someone is asking you to do things that will be clearly harmful or illegal, you want to avoid those. But keep yourself open to the other types of things that you receive an invite to. You never know what fun opportunities and friends await at new activities and events when you decide to say yes.
Start opening yourself up to new friends and new situations where you can be a social butterfly. Make yourself available and say yes.
5. Have Patience, Manifesting Friends takes time
The process of manifesting friends and becoming a social butterfly works. The Laws of Attraction work. But it doesn’t work with the snap of the fingers. You can see how it would not be legitimate if you said you wanted a bunch of friends and with the snap of a finger you had a dozen friends standing there.
Manifesting anything takes a little time. You have to be patient once you have put the wheels into motion.
Give the Universe time to move things in the direction you want for it to all unfold. It will happen in due time!
One of the most common reasons that people fail at manifesting friends and becoming a social butterfly is that they give up too soon.
They believe that it should happen quickly, they don’t have patience, and they give up on all of the above steps.
Don’t let that happen to you. Stay the course and keep believing. Continue moving in the direction that you want your life to take, and keep saying your affirmations. With some patience, it will happen.
Being able to manifest anything is possible and it you have the power to do it. All you have to do is follow the steps and be mindful of the manifestation process. Being able to manifest the life you want is within reach.
When it comes to manifesting anything it’s important to express gratitude as progress is made. Once you see things taking shape it’s important to have gratitude for the progress. Every time you get a new friend, get a chance to be a social butterfly or see that progress is being made take the time to express gratitude.
What we focus on in life and have gratitude for is what we get more of. This is why it is so important to mind your thoughts and ensure you have the right mental attitude and are saying the right things. Whether it’s about your or others, your thoughts need to be clear and focus on what you want in life.
You can manifest friends and become a social butterfly. It’s easier than you think to do, and won’t take long for it to happen. You just need to be clear about what you want, ask the Universe for it, and allow it to unfold.